Wow! I just found this wonderful site that helps you to make your own cross stitch alphabet pattern. (This works for filet crochet too.) Check it out here. I can't wait to try it.
I have cross stitched for more than 20 years and over the years I have used graph paper, a pencil and lots of erasers trying to get a pattern the way I like it, this is just fantastic!
And best of all it's FREE! Can you believe it?
Have fun with this and let me know what you think about it.